He denounced his wife after 19 years of marriage to be a trans woman

Jan, now 64, is married to a third with Mónica, a Thai woman who she hired as a nanny for her children after their second divorce. Over time, the man has fallen in love with the "au pair" and they married in 1993.

"The Belgian court had Serious doubts about the authenticity of your birth certificate and their identity papers, but they finally accepted it, "said the man on the site. Het Nieuwsblad.

Jan had four children from his two previous marriages and Monica badured her that she did not want to be a mother, married life has developed well with the nurse became "sister or friend" of the descendants of man.

In fact, Monica, 48, I took the contraceptive pill every day and used sanitary napkins once a month so her husband never imagined that he was born a man. "Although I now understand why she has always used lubricant," said the man.

"I would never have taken the initiative to divorce for the third time. I am on early retirement and I said to myself: with a little mutual tolerance, we can grow old together. But it turned out to be completely different, "said the man, who still shares his home with his former partner.

After several years of dependence on her husband, Monica found a full-time job and began to vary her wardrobe (she owns 100 pairs of shoes and wears "showy clothes", according to her husband) and even chatting with "younger" men. residents in Antwerp. All this triggered Jan's alarms.

"My son was in a nightclub," he said. "A cousin of Monica began to spread all kinds of gossip. A friend told me that he had heard that he was in fact an operated man. I could not believe it, "added the man.

"It's the ultimate betrayal. I feel badaulted, touched in my honor. The idea that I share the bed with her for years seems horrible to me, "said Jan, who is now looking cancel the wedding even though it was consumed until 2012.

The first hearing on the case was unfavorable for Jan, especially when the judge asked him if, in fact, Monica was a woman today. The answer it's affirmative because she had an operation before meeting her husband, but the man had another sensation.

"At that moment, I felt that I had to turn around and ask the other men present:"What would you feel if you were suddenly told that your wife is really a man?& # 39; You can not imagine what this is doing to you, "he said.