Gwyneth Paltrow's "conscious separation" was not nonsense

The day Gwyneth Paltrow announced on Goop that his marriage with Chris Martin was over the web died of success. The avalanche of visits was such that the system fell. In addition to the shock caused by the breakup of such a media pair and such a perfect image, something has attracted the attention of all who followed the news. The couple did not call the situation a simple divorce, as all mortals would have done, the challenge they faced was a "Conscious disconnection of a couple" also known as "conscious separation".

In the days that followed, there was much talk of this concept, which was not new, but which the newly separated had made universal. For many, this friendly separation announced good vibes was nothing more than a pantomine. Another eccentricity of Paltrow and his environment dedicated to the most elitist and most inaccessible lifestyle. Something that was very well under an Instagram filter, but it was impossible to take it to real life. A dream for which humanity was not yet prepared.

However, the time has come to give the reason to the actress and the singer of Coldplay: consciously separate and Maintaining a close friendship relationship is not impossible. They succeeded.

The latest images from the ex-partner show that the conscious separation of Martin Paltrow was implemented with a result apparently more than satisfactory. A few days ago we saw the actress with her husband Brad Falchuk accompanied by Chis Martin and his girlfriend, Dakota Johnson. The photos of the evening show two couples enjoying a relaxing day at the beach. A complete double appointment.

This is not the first time we see that behind this announcement, which forever changed our image of divorce, there was more than just fine words. In a New York Times report titled How did Goop's enemies earn the company $ 250 million? Journalist Taffy Brodesser-Akner travels to California to see how the life of the actress is involved in the digital business woman. In part of the report, Brodesser-Akner describes how Chris Martin breaks into the kitchen of Paltrow's house and bows to the island to make it clear, including by his absolute kindness, that he does not want anything he says. Appear in the story. Then he goes quietly to another room in the house. But it is only with this information that it is clear to us that the musician was comfortable in the Paltrow residence and that for him, spending time with his children goes well beyond the time dictated by a judge. It seems obvious that if Chris wishes to stay for some time with his children, he goes to the actress and plays the role of a father who exceeds the rigidity of a visitor regime.

Although from the outside it seems that this family has solved all its problems in the deepest harmony, Gwyneth Paltrow herself confessed to sharing with the world the way they planned to separate ("despite how much they loved each other"). and after a year trying to fix it ") had made him feel very overwhelmed. As The Cut points out in an article titled It Seems That Conscious Separation Works, the actress told the podcast of Dax Shepard Armchair Expert that the days of the announcement of the separation were living with immense sadness. "It was very difficult. I was very worried for our children. It seemed that the world had turned against us simply to say that we wanted to behave and stay united as a family. "

The talent of actor or guru Paltrow to create websites selling ambitious products is indisputable. But in addition to these professional virtues, it seems more than proven that He has the gift of finding solutions to apparently complex personal situations. A few days ago, we knew that Paltrow and her husband, Brad Falchuk, only slept together four days a week, which coincided with the time when Brody and Isabella (born of the man's wedding day) Business with Suzanne Bukinik) were not with him. This system is possible because the houses of the two are very close. An agreement that they would have concluded not to alter the lives of their respective children. We do not know if Gwyneth Paltrow's marriage will be sustainable and if his intermittent coexistence will work, it seems obvious that eventually he gets divorced, the blood will not get to the river.