Jill Duggar's husband, Derick Dillard, gives relationship advice to people who are waiting for it.

Does Derick Dillard, Jill Duggar's husband, have a future as a board columnist? L & # 39; former Counting on The star shared some thoughts on the relationship in a recent article on her family's blog, in which some fans nodded.

Exceed the "paralysis of badysis"

In the post, titled "Confessions of a Christ Seeking
Millennial ", Dillard spoke frankly about the" paralysis of badysis "that he suffered
earlier in his life and how his Christian faith helped him overcome the fear of
risk and make the wrong decisions.

"[O]What I learned is that I do not always have to
have all the answers, but I have to trust my God who does it, "he wrote.

Dillard talked about some of the risks he took in his
life, including trying – and ultimately winning – the work of "Pistol
Pete, "the mascot of the Oklahoma State University, settling in Nepal for two years
after college, have children and decide to go to law school.

The risk of waiting for "the one"

Dillard also talked about his relationship with his wife, Jill Duggar. One of the most risky gestures of his life was to "fall in love and marry my best friend while none of us knew if my mother would be alive when we returned from our moon." honey, "he wrote in his message.

The father of two explained that although he had allowed his paralyzed badysis to take over, Jill and he might never have been married. And he says that he sees many young people in the same position, waiting to get married until they are 100% sure of having found "that one".

"[O]my myth that I mean circulating in the Christian millennium
the world is this notion of "one." Young singles wait to see the clouds
separate and hear the hallelujah chorus when they meet their soul mate, and if that
did not happen, so they believe they must continue to wait for "the
one, "he writes.

But to wait "this one" could turn against us, "
Said Dillard. "If you're not married, do not expect a perfect person because
you will die alone, he wrote.

"[Y]you will never feel as "ready" as you think
be before you embark on the next adventure, whether with your
career, to found a family or not, "he added.

Was the post a subtle dig at Jill's?

Jill Dillard shared her husband's post on Instagram, where
many subscribers shared support notes. "There is no" magic ".
the perfect is your spouse who brings you closer to God, "wrote one person.

Even Dillard's mother intervened. "Wow! So proud of my son and
his wife !! She wrote.

But at least one person interpreted Dillard's words as a sign that he was not totally happy in his marriage. Wrote a person: "[I] hope derick tells / shows his love for you and treats you like a Princess, because it looks like from this writing you are do not the love of his life but an adequate choice of spouse. "

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