Some women are enemies of themselves …!

A new number can be added to a long list of victims of domestic violence, especially against women. The Mount Lebanon investigating judge began his investigation with the husband of Lebanese Customs Observer Rana El-Bainu, who was killed at the end of last month, as a result of the investigation. allegations that she fell from the car in Bhamdoun.

But the police report said Bainou had been subjected to violence before falling out of the car.

The report unequivocally suggests that the killing was intentional and that the incomplete testimony baderted that the woman had been subjected to violence before she was finished by "pushing her" out of the car, as the news reader could Wait there.
In 2019, we continue to facilitate killings, beatings and violence. As if centuries of civilization and technology did not refine souls and did not enlighten minds, but kept the same methods and that the male vision of the woman knew no way to solve the problems of the family, to less than beating.

It can be said that hundreds of millions of women around the world are victims of violence and exploitation, even in the countries we consider to be advanced and attaching great importance to women in their laws and constitutions. The author of this statement is often deliberate to show the "positive" side of the situation of women in Lebanon, especially compared to other Arab countries.

But why should we be in between? That is to say between the social presence of Lebanese women that is not available in the Arab countries, and at the same time between the lack of laws protecting them from violence and torture and the preservation of their rights as in Europe, America and Canada?
Laws aimed at defending women's rights are not a miracle and can be enacted in record time, but as we know, laws mirror the development of society. The absence of explicit laws that can not tolerate procrastination and manipulation depends on society's acceptance of equality.

Social acceptance is the first step of any legal change, so that the existing legislative, social and cultural systems become a mirror of the development of society. This means that members of society relax their roles and status within the family as a wife, sister and mother. It is not enough for Lebanese women to get a job when their protection is much lower than what is required.

In addition to harbadment, beatings and killings, there is more than one place where Lebanese women face discrimination and injustice under a variety of norms, such as related laws that protect women in divorce proceedings. In addition to maternity leave, as well as laws imposing equal pay for women in the same professions.

A society that always draws on the social heritage (especially the bad) will not defend its definition and imperfect representation of the woman and must be ruled by force, with excessive use of force, whether by by beating or verbal abuse, or by informing women that they can not manage without their existence. Man

We can not forget that some women are enemies of themselves, they strive to consolidate their inferiority and reject any change likely to improve their social and legal status, which is more dangerous for women than some women. murderers.