Famous people speak of violence: "A beaten child loses confidence in his love and self-confidence." | names

Kristina Savickytė, actress, mother of three

"I know that parenting is very difficult work and responsibilities, which require strength, self-denial, working with oneself, what we are pbadionate about, we, our parents, our own experience of childhood – unfortunately, not always what we want to like or brave.

Therefore, in addition to the unconditional love of the child, the child experiences fatigue, a question of authority, shame, what is right and what does it look like. # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # Is not. It seems to me that it is now very important to reinforce the line of love and respect for the growing person and to help, out of ignorance, to concentrate support and support for parents.

At the state level, it is important to ensure adequate funding and implementation of the existing law on the fundamental principles of the protection of children's rights. We must ensure that violence against the child is unjustified and uninteresting.

Start by looking at what I can contribute to myself and contribute to a fundamental change in our society. My children deserve it, I do not doubt that all Lithuanian children deserve it. "

Algirdas Gataveckas, artist, public figure

"Mom can spoil the baby? Then, the man can tease his mother.I remember: see horrible pictures and all activities based on violence are the influences that shape our ideas and skills.

Human behavior depends on communities and values. People are not born violent – they become as if they lived in an inappropriate environment. "

Elizabeth Latėnaitė, actress, mother

"I am very happy that my child and I live in a country where the law prohibits violence against children, including corporal punishment, but unfortunately I am disappointed by the government's commitment to implementing child abuse. consistently reform the rights of the child and actively help families raise happy children by educating the public about responsible parenting.

It was only when I asked for help that I learned from a psychologist that the education of children can be enjoyable and bring great joy and not suffering. I have received a lot of knowledge about paternity courses.

I think that it is possible to ensure the safety of children and create a beautiful and strong relationship with children, and that happy people create a happy state. "

Larisa Kalpokaitė, actress

"Child nonviolence is a realistic idea, we just took the law and decided that we had done everything right now, working with children is extremely responsible, and if we're talking about a law against violence, we also need to talk about employee responsibility, full and specific training, responsibility for abuse and adequate compensation for them.

The law is necessary: ​​the child is the same person as an adult, but more sensitive. Violence is an inappropriate education and the child is helpless in the face of violence.

In my childhood, I was a victim of peer violence and inadequate and incorrect responses from adults. Then my father defended me and if the parents do not protect, then who will defend this child? "

Juozas Liesis, journalist, father of two

"Fear is natural – pain, loss, connection to loved ones, frustration of losing children, we realize we are not ideal and we will never be. Risk in one or the other risk group can also be very scary.Children are also scared of spiders, frogs, earthworms and many other things that may seem ridiculous to an adult.

When you beat a child when you hit him when you are shot, the child loses everything that is most important to him in the world – faith in your love and trust in you. He lives at the same time horror, pain, helplessness and rejection.

These strong feelings – fear, guilt and pain – can remain in your child's memory even after burns. The violent scars can last forever. It is precisely the fear and mistrust that flow from such actions, not the innate talents of your child, that can help him live more in life.

Excuse us, admit that we do not make mistakes and work patiently with ourselves so that at least our children grow up without violence. I believe that each of us would have wanted such a childhood. Let the cuddles and sincere conversations continue from generation to generation! "

Erika Purauskytė, event organizer, mother of two

"We are now witnessing a mbadive public uprising on the basis of the protection of the rights of the child: one part for the amendments and another before, but we all aspire to the same thing: our children and all the children of Lithuania are safe and happy with their family.

But those who defend the law may not understand an important thing: we will not go back to the previous situation. We will be able to beat children, to commit acts of violence. Do we want our children? "

Emilija Latėnaitė-Bieliauskienė, actress, mother

"From the second week, I'm trying to understand why the pbadion for Lithuanian children is boiling." I understand that it's really sensitive, but it's unnatural to attack at such extremes, when only the "children's fight" and the "private children" remain.

Total lack of communication between caregivers, their well-being and their future. I understand how frightening the possibility that your child is carrying something. As the possibility that someone is violent with your child. And the law of neglecting the child here is not as good as it is.

This is in itself important and good, but it is necessary to correct the system and understand that there are people who really do not know what the violence is and who n '# 39; do not need to do it on the part of pro-Russian sadists.

If the law were to be changed, it would be the triumph of our tensions, our insecurity and our lack of discussion. Less desire for justice and heroism, more communication and understanding of the more diverse colors of life. "

Agnė Grigaliūnienė, businesswoman, radio host, mother of two

"Too bad the simple question of violence, politics is exploited by manipulating the concepts, we are all against violence and the baseless deprivation of children in the family, and no law enforcement will be perfect right away.

Therefore, enforcement needs to be improved, not the law. The law is clear with a clear statement: children can not be beaten. In the meantime, the current wording of the amendments unnecessarily introduces uncertainty and leaves room for interpretations in a country where the culture of education is still a belt. In addition, these interpretations make it possible to no longer enforce the law. "