Inside the new life of Selena Gomez without Justin Bieber

Even at sea, it would be hard to escape this news.

We will therefore assume that Selena Gomez was aboard a yacht that sailed outside New York City on Sunday, . One of his mates nailed him in this Justin Bieber the guy she'd been calling her boyfriend four months ago, had improved her fiancee status.

"Selena was surprised to hear the news, like most people," admits an insider to E! New. "That caught her off guard and was not what she was expecting." But in no way did it tarnish his sunny day. "It has completely evolved and puts their relationship in the past," reveals another source. And while she was "shocked" to hear Bieber propose to Hailey Baldwin 21-year-old model, in front of a crowd gathered at Baker's Bay, a private Bahamian seaside resort, says the source: "She does not do it." "

A few days after July 4, the talented multi-trait union still celebrates its independence.Most 25-year-olds would not be really excited to learn that their ex-newborn So much progress had been made so early, no matter the added salt in Bieber's injury stating the woman he dated between her stays with Gomez to be "the love of my life." But the peeps insist on the the last "Wolf" singer made Bieber's fever disappear from her system with the 24-year-old pop star "Selena is totally over her," confided a third confidante. last time and that was not the case. "

Knowing that her old love was not supposed to be, adds the first insider, she feels ready to embrace everything that comes next : his next album, a new series of films, maybe even a new partnership "At this point, she is just trying to focus on her own life and her own happiness," says the insider. "She's not going to get carried away in what she's doing, she's found her place happy and focuses on what works for her."

In other words, she does not take bait this time. Stuck in a cycle of date-fight-split-repeat with the old YouTube sensation since they met as teens in 2009, her separation periods from Bieber were just as rich in drama as the relationship herself. Who can forget the time when she tried to mock her fan too much attention complaints about her romance with Sofia Richie to end up in a social media war that saw both sides to lay charges of cheating?

This time, swear insiders, she is content to stay away. While potential spouses discuss their future with their over 200 million followers on social networks ("I'm so grateful to God for giving me an amazing person to share my life with!" Baldwin sprang up Twitter while joking with the producer Ryan Good that Bieber would remain clean-shaven for the wedding), Gomez is urgent mute. Says the source, "Justin is no longer a subject of conversation in his life."

The only time he arrives is when his friends complain about his tendency to make impulsive choices. These are the same guys whose annus horribilis in 2014 saw him cheer up a neighbor's house, make the run in Miami and heat his private jet in the space of three weeks and a half.

"Selena knows that Justin makes unthinking decisions," says the source, "but he wishes them the best." If they decide to rush into the aisle before the end of 2018 or unravel each step of a long engagement on Instagram, it makes no difference. Said the source, "She is really focused on herself."

Four months later, doing one's own thing is pretty good. In the wake of her, presumably final, shared with Bieber in March – at the time an insider told E! News, they had disagreements about lifestyle "and how to manage their relationship in the eyes of the public" – she seemed happy to let off steam.

While Bieber revolved around the Instagram model Baskin Champion Gomez visited his family in Texas, traveled to Australia to attend sessions at the Hillsong Color Conference for women (and cruise around Sydney Harbor). rink with peeps and tools around West Hollywood in a Tom Petty T-shirt and Heartbreakers. (A possible message to Bieber or just a tribute to the deceased rocker?)

And while Bieber's tactic of being photographed with a new woman may have made her furious in the past, this Once she felt indifferent to the whole thing. situation. Said an insider, "She thinks it's childish, but ultimately is not baffled."

She has more important topics to spend her energy on. While she took the time to take a pleasure trip in June with her friends, she has mostly done business in recent weeks.

A few days after releasing her new title "Back to You" on May 10, what she called "a special project" in honor of Season 2 of her hit Netflix 13 Reasons Why (Gomez serves her stage with her "best friend of about 12 years", Taylor Swift .In the middle of the sold-out set of Swift in Pasadena, In California, Gomez came out to sing his hit "Hands to Myself" and pay tribute to the artist Reputation .

"This person has never, ever judged a single decision I took it, "Gomez shared with the audience." She has always met me where I was, she encouraged me when I had nothing to cheer for and I do not know if I would be as strong as me if I did not have you and your family filled with gratitude, the singer – whose longtime battle with Lupus forced her to undergo a kidney transplant last summer – made an appearance at the event of June 23, in Orange County, oncology. participated in WE Day California in April, spending time with Nellie Mainor, a fan eager to spread awareness about kidney disease.)

Perhaps these children were still in the lead later on? Transylvania Hotel 3: Summer vacation . Because while chatting with E! News Jason Kennedy the Texas native speculated about his future as a parent, saying, "I think I'm going to be the best or the worst mother, just because I'm going to protect my children as a business person. "

This is a problem for Gomez to come in. Single for the first time since she's started dating The Weeknd early 2017, the brand's ambassador for Coach and Puma is not even looking for potential contenders. While she's open to dating, says one initiated, "She is learning to appreciate time alone."

Or, at least, the time spent with her more platonic mates. "She really focuses on herself," confides the confidante to E! News. "She is happy now to spend time with her friends and go to church. "

Her other l holy holy: The recording studio. Having sworn to release his third studio album "so soon", Gomez intends to keep his promise. "Selena puts a lot of effort into her new music," says a source. "She really wants to finish an album this year and focuses solely on making hits and staying healthy."

This means regular appointments to keep lupus under control, a lot of exercise and a nutrient-dense diet and low in social media lagging behind.

These days all subliminal messages are resolutely focused on her. Take the t-shirt that she chose for a walk to New York on Tuesday. Look closely at the pocket of the seemingly simple black shirt and you'll find the relevant takeaways: "Only the strong survive."

If anyone knows, we bet on Gomez.