Meghan Markle finds some royal rules "hard to understand"

Meghan Markle has cleverly sailed in her new role in the Duchess since she joined the Royal Family two months ago. But between the exits with the queen and the royal baptisms, she learns the ups and downs of life like the Duchess of Sussex.

Although she quickly adapted herself to many minutiae of do's and don'ts, she "found the rules of the royal household are hard to understand, like the fact that the queen prefers women to dresses or skirts rather than tailors, and often ask Harry why things have to be done in a certain way, "said a source to People in this week.

" I think that She sometimes finds it a bit frustrating, but that's her new life, and she has to deal with it, "says the source.

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Entering an entirely new world has also brought a new set of challenges.The former French-speaking actress, who is referring to the feminization of his page on the official website of the British monarchy Iique, made the headlines on July 10 at the residence of the British ambassador in Dublin, when Senator Catherine Noone tweeted that Meghan Elle declared "delighted to see the result" of the recent referendum organized in Ireland to legalize abortion. (Members of the royal family generally avoid political discussions and Noone removes the tweet.)

"This is an example of his naivety," recounts Crown historical consultant and royal biographer, Robert Lacey. "In the royal family, they speak freely, and everyone knows the rules, and learns the hard way that you can not trust anyone outside the narrow circle."

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Of course, she has her new husband by her side to help her show the royal strings – with former Queen Samantha Cohen, secretary-secret Assistant, who helped her to follow her protocol

"You can see Prince Harry's practical approach, guide him, help him," says photographer Mark Stewart to People