A woman finds her diamond before making her request and herself

He wants to put a ring on it, but she may be waiting for a diamond as big as the Ritz.

A fiancée was slammed online after discovering her engagement ring in her boyfriend's business and complaining about it on Facebook – even before the proposal was made.

Once the unidentified woman found the ring on her bedside table, she uploaded a photo to a "shameful" Facebook group, a community dedicated to criticizing engagement baubles, Yahoo reported.

"Ewwwww. Friday, I'm ashamed, she said. "I found it in the BF night table. Not a fan. "

She then asked her colleagues to join her in roasting her ring and asked her friend for advice to "tactfully" a different diamond.

The message headed for Reddit where angry users called the mysterious woman's complaint.

"I hope the guy sees that and separates. Seriously, if she's the kind of person she is, no one should marry her until she settles her attitude, "wrote one person.

"This lady deserves not to be ashamed of the ring," said another user.

But other people understood his ring preferences better.

"I think she is rightly asking for advice," wrote a user. "How can I say tactfully, no, you have to go for something different?"

Some took the opportunity to make jokes.

"It's not for her," joked one person. Another joke that her discovery is "how she discovers she is the girl on the side".

The shaming ring is on the rise in the era of social media. Food blogger Jen Phanomrat told Yahoo that she was criticized after posting a selfie with her fiancé on Instagram, where users called her "very small under the microscope".

"I was shocked to see so many women wasting their time responding to alleviate our happy moment," said Phanomrat, who runs the Just Eat Life YouTube channel. "I've removed many commentary threads to mitigate the cycles of hate speech."

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