Money is often a source of couple conflict, what is the cause?

TEMPO.CO Jakarta – You Feel Like Someone But Doubt Your Financial Ability, Whether To Reject It? Maybe the person's income is more than enough. However, what should be a concern is when they have bad habits in managing their finances.

Maybe they are wasters or too insane to invest or indifferent to future plans so that they do not have enough savings. While in the heart, you surely want to marry someone no because of the material.

Quote from The Balance There are a few things to notice by couples who began to enter into more serious scale

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First, look at the spouse's ability to manage his finances, which is about people who save at least 30% of their income. Are they the ones who create a liquid savings fund for the next 6 months as an emergency fund or are they just people who do not care about retirement savings?

Believe me, these indicators show the character of financial management. Second, the survey shows that finance is an important factor that shapes the marriage. According to the CNBC report, finance is the main source of stress in long-term relationships, with 35% of respondents saying that money is the main source of conflict in their relationship

. 44% of respondents aged 44 to 54 said that money was the main cause of conflict in their relationship.

Third, find solutions by building healthy relationships. Healthy relationships require that both people share the same values, visions, and habits not only about spending and saving, but also about how to invest.

But do not worry. You and your spouse do not have to discuss overly complicated issues. The most important thing is a general vision of how you manage your finances.

It's fine if a person is wasting a bit while others are leaning towards frugality. It does not matter if one person invests a little more aggressively, while the other is more controllable. As long as you both have the same signal, it will most likely work. In fact, your relationship can enrich.