TALK MAN: Do not move into a woman's house!

If you are a man and you are reading this and you are in love with a woman and you want to completely bady this relationship – you know it, turn it into a model relationship that we can all admire and be proud of – I have an idea. Moving in with her.

Rather, moves into his house. It's because her house is perhaps bigger and she's got better furniture than your awful 80s sofas, and I'm sure she tastes better than you in the curtains . Of course she knows, you did not even know what a curtain looked like until two weeks ago. In addition, his home is closer to where you work than your home.

She thinks it's a good idea because you've been dating for over two years and she will not be surprised to discover that you're a walker waking up in the middle of the night to polish your shoes and bend your boxers. Plus, it's romantic, is not it? So sell your shabby furniture and move in because you're in love, is not it? False.

No property can ever come out of a woman's home. I am not pessimistic, but I am. I just can not see how this relationship can be satisfying if you move in with her, using her towels and giving her a little space in her closet for your pants with the lapels.

No matter how modern or open – minded you are, or how close you are. Men should never move into women's homes. That's how you start losing self respect.

And women will say, "Oh no, it does not bother me, okay, darling, this guy Biko is a bitter guy, I know him, we used to go to the same church a long time ago, is bitter, I love you, and it does not bother me that you move in with me from elsewhere, what is mine is yours and vice versa. "[19659009] It's bullshit, gentlemen. Just a house, so you move together. Or she moves into your home. She can change your bad curtains if she wants to. She'd have done a favor anyway, improving your bland taste.

Let me tell you a story because I can not help telling a story. The other day, a friend said, "I am with girls here and they are discussing your book, have you thought about coming here and going on a book tour?" She lives overseas.

I said, "No, the book tours are clichés, but wait, you should not have gone home … I thought you went for a vacation and when is the wedding still? "[she is engaged]. She said that she is no longer engaged. I said, "Whoa!" I say "a lot" when I want to hear more.

In short, they broke up because in his words, "He moved in with me and I was paying the rent and taking it I was busy doing great things because it was my house and it was not Was not exactly and every time we fought, it devoured me … I was angry at him for not being the man and it started coming out in the form of words and that's it Destroyed and because he was hurt, he hurt me in another way and it was really very bad.Biko, actions that we can overcome, but words "Those you can not and I do not think it could and so we broke up."

No matter how crazy a woman is about you. If you move into her house, it will be pink at first, but as sure as death and taxes, she will start to blame you when you let her pay the rent and feed you. It does not matter if you pay for electricity.

At some point, she will enter the living room to find you sitting there with half of your belly, the television remote, I'm sorry, she's remote in your hand and she will think, "What kind of Man is the one who sits and does not pay his way? "

And this resentment will grow slowly as the relationship continues and one day it will float. She will say, "Be a man" or "Shoot your weight". (With regard to the responsibilities, yes, but also with regard to your 98kgs and 29 IMC). And as time pbades, she will not look at you as "the man" anymore, but as a boarder she loves.

You will lose your respect and once a woman loses her respect for you, it's only a matter of time before she starts talking to you about shit , first to you, then to people. Do not get to this point.

The only way not to get to this point is to not move into your home. You can move into your friend's house if you are unemployed, but not your wife's home. Entering your friend's home pushes you to move. Not if you are in your wife's house. And while there, lose the pants with the flips.