VALERIE SCHULTZ: Who are you now | Valerie Schultz

Prior to recent reforms and changes in state law, parole hearings were held. Few lives have been deemed by the board of directors to be suitable for parole, and if so, the governor overturned the decision. In the past, inmates were less concerned with preparing for these hearings because the results were predetermined.

But when I worked in the library, the outlook changed. The man walked out of the audience with a vague expression when told to go home. They must prove that they are not at risk to society, that they are responsible for their crimes, that they have participated in rehabilitation and education programs, and that they have aligned their homes and jobs to the ‘outside. It was.

The library gradually filled with serious researchers. Hope is a powerful motivation, as desperate men supported each other through self-help groups. Over the next several years, I was honored to witness real change, provide information and resources, and most importantly, hear the good news of a person’s fitness for parole.

After my retirement, I found regular library clients through Facebook. (See, Facebook is good for something.) I’m happy with their success and saddened by their disappointment. I have permission to share the following stories, but all initials protect your privacy.

The stigma of crime records often undermines the expectations of parolees. “My experience here has rejected some work opportunities because of the past, but I shrug my shoulders and continue my journey,” says WW is grateful for the coping skills he worked on during his incarceration. “Losing loved ones, jobs and relationships can be very difficult, but what I’ve learned is that things happen for reasons and it’s up to us to decide how we react. . “

While it is difficult for parolees to obtain practical considerations such as housing, transportation and employment, their greatest obstacle may be relationships with others. The obvious problem that men face when released is E. As pointed out, “Dating. As a former student, when have you been in jail for decades and is it a good time to tell someone not to scare them? I think it’s better to become, let them know right away and let them choose to continue knowing who you are now. Finding the right woman is no easy task, so we all have For us we are blessed. “

“The problem I have faced is family,” explains L. “Because I commit myself several times, I lost their confidence and I built a wall to protect them from being injured again. … But little by little they noticed the changes. They are more open to me as I get more involved in their life. “

P. knows the problems faced by many mixed families. “I’ve learned to stay on the front line… the hardest part is dividing the time between my family and the new family I’m building with the women I’m with. Divide holidays and vacations. Everything is new to me. It can be intimidating. “

Parole has many conditions and restrictions. It is not completely free. Some people may be subjected to regular meetings, substance inspections, random searches, and GPS monitoring. Yet parole is better than jail time. Not everyone can handle it well. M. enjoyed early and exciting success, landing a steady job and marrying an old flame. Her online posts have highlighted her accomplishments, even as simple as barbecuing with friends. Unfortunately, M. has not moved away from the old addiction. The 12-step prison program has taught her a daily suggestion that requires her constant vigilance. M. is back in prison.

In light of the many burdens and blessings inherent in parole, W. expresses the emotions that prevail in this particular Facebook group. Me. I am very grateful to everyone. “

May these shared words encourage us to come up with good ideas for those who are now returning to society now that they have paid their debts to society. May they support their efforts by giving them the dignity of a second chance.