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Dr. Larissa Andressa Medeiros, 40 years old, died in Curitiba on December 22nd, a victim of metastatic bad cancer.
Born in Lages (SC), Larissa was married and worked at the hospital of the Federal University of Paraná (UFPR) clinics, as well as professional in the field of hematology, in focusing on performance in the field of bone marrow transplantation.
Full Story:
"Dear Family!
I am more thoughtful and absent … it was a difficult day, I was thinking about death, but I saw a documentary on my incoherence, since it is the safest thing … I asked God for a second chance or a force p to understand if he had another goal.
I am going to apply here:
– Today My chances of recovery are lower than those of success!
– I want and I will win, with the help of God and Our Lady, without the statistics of men!
But I really wanted to love you so that you remember the things that I learned …
– Today, we have 1,2,5 or 20 million in a bank; have a wonderful travel ticket, a nice dress or the power to go to incredible restaurants … a good wine, a delicious candy … None of that, I could in pr now I would not change my chances or access to remedies, I would not have the sting and the willingness to travel (I can not leave more than 15 days for chemo, which gave me a lot of extra reactions), I can not drink, eat a lot of sweets … and I do not have physical mood to wear a beautiful dress with joy …
Vanity to grow scientifically, to win something in the profession, the prestige ??? Nothing stays … I've lost so much time with that … I've been so silly in so many ways … just the kindness of colleagues and patients brought by the work … But of course, I will not be a hypocrite: work, responsibilities, savings … are important things, but they are nothing more than living today … having comfort, enjoying good things of life, it is worth living … Live in the meantime always a future that may not happen, it is dying
So, what is left and what is it makes me happy? The good memories of the moments and experiences that I have experienced … the laughs, the caresses, the joy of the trips that I liked, the delicious food was homemade or a good restaurant … the true feelings and the pure love of family and many dear friends that I've rediscovered …
I know that nothing will be as palpable as for me, that I had to go through it to have so much clarity in my thoughts … I I heard it in the pacts but I did not put it into practice …
I would like you to try without having to go through anything bad to change:
– Fighting complaints, vanities, conflicts … occur, but they leave the air very heavy, absorb our energy and lead to nothing. We are children, daughters-in-law and sons-in-law, parents, brothers and sisters, couples, we are all going to deceive ourselves … choose what we have this result: to hit or to miss. And wrongly to learn, only the mistake allows this grace to learn and change! we unfortunately do not learn from the mistakes of others … The correct answers unfortunately do not bring all this knowledge, by irony … nobody knows what is right … the right does not come is not for others.
Let's live together. peace, respect the individuality of people, couples, even if it is not our opinion. Celebrating life, having fun holding meetings, avoiding fights and heavy things … I wanted everyone to start walking, to travel, to practice lightness everyday … who wants to leave, come back, leave, stay, shut up … follow your heart … decide for yourself … do not wait for permission to be happy.
– My Love (husband) taught me a lot of things to do … it was a terrible year for us … a lot of concessions, d & # 39; adjustments … but our love has learned to be a ribbon, no, and we have never known … we respect, we support, we encourage … if you are stressed, come back from the race Take it with the most beautiful smile and bring only good energies for me. It does not say anything heavy, it does not speak of anyone, always positive, the best companion that I could have had … my love! Often we disagree, we want different things, but we learn to respect everyone's decisions without wasting time trying to convince ourselves in our own way … I think we gain more love and more respect !! Love is not possession or imprisonment, it is freedom and respect …
I know we still have a lot to learn … But I think we are in the way, between blows and mistakes …
– I want to scream, for all that I like: "Take the reins of your life … travel, make you, buy responsibilities and give yourself some fun … life is TODAY! Just today! Travel, eat in a nice place, buy the beautiful clothes you want. .. "
We do not know if we will live in the future … we will enjoy retirement … if we have health and spirit, enjoy! Life will give back in true love, great friends who will be part of the family … and very good memories … "
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